Ok, guys who insist, “NOT ALL MEN! Besides, some women are into it so quit judging,” in regards to the violence inherent in pornography, did you know there is a group of men (a surprisingly big group of men) who get sexual arousal from having their balls stomped on? Seriously. Google it.
Now, imagine every woman you know spending hours a day watching videos of women stomping on men’s balls. Imagine they started watching it from age 11 or so, before they knew anything about sex. Imagine several of your guy friends defending women watching these videos because, “Hey, it’s just a kink. It’s none of your business what other people are into. Don’t kink shame!” Imagine others defending them because, “Hey, those men get paid really well to have their balls stomped on. If they didn’t love it, they’d find other jobs. It’s their body. Are you telling men they can’t choose what to do with their bodies?”
Imagine your own wife or girlfriend telling you, “Oh, baby, don’t worry. It’s just fantasy,” when you confront her about your discomfort with her watching hours of those videos a day. Imagine that the sex between you two has gotten worse and much less frequent because she can’t get turned on without stomping on balls or watching someone stomping on balls. Imagine several women trying to do it to you in bed even though you’ve NEVER talked about it or given permission for them to do it because they just think it’s normal. Imagine women objecting to your dismay, claiming that it’s a standard act that they’ve done with all their boyfriends and that if you won’t comply, they’ll move on. Imagine women announcing loudly and proudly, “My man LOVES it when I stomp on his nuts.” Imagine their men showing up to agree.
Imagine women regularly, openly, and proudly telling men that their balls aren’t even good enough to stomp on because they don’t look like the ones on the screen. Imagine the same women dedicating whole forums to sharing videos of great ball stomping videos. Imagine the same women dedicating whole forums to showing other women pics of your balls that your wife or girlfriend promised you would be private. Imagine lots of women commenting on the pics of your balls that your wife or girlfriend promised you would be private. Imagine trying to get the images removed only to be told, “She owns the copyright. If you don’t want people seeing and commenting on your balls, don’t send pics of them, slut.” Imagine several men you know subjecting themselves to extremely painful ball waxing and risky cosmetic ball surgery and taking potentially life threatening ball enhancement supplements.
Imagine trying to tell your guy friends that this is all fucked up and having them tell you, “But I WANT to do those things. I did them for ME, not for her. They make me feel good about myself. They are very empowering acts for me! Mind your own business, prude!” Imagine a ball stomper was president and loads of women around you voted for her and have unwavering, undying support for her.
Would you REALLY be fine with this? Can you even imagine such a nightmare? Would you be able to trust women if this was your daily life?
…and yet THIS is the kind of terrorism women live with EVERY SECOND OF EVERY MINUTE OF EVERY HOUR OF EVERY DAY. Plus, there are waaaaaaaay more types of violent acts people think are okay to do to us…choking, beating, slapping, gagging, hair pulling, verbal abuse, rose budding, BDSM, AND MORE! These are the kinds of things nearly all the men around us watch for hours DAILY, if not daily, at least weekly….But we aren’t supposed to live in fear somehow because, “Not all men,” and, “But some women like it.”
Let that sink in.